“ You’re still stuck on the same part you were stuck on at seven.”
“What part is that?”
“The part where you need to choose among the choices that are there, and not the ones that aren’t anymore. At least not how you need them to be. You’re still stuck on some imaginary idea you have of how it could have been. You need to think about how it is now. And how you want it to be. ”
London is the Best City in America by Laura Dave. Just finished reading it this morning. This quote particularly reminded me of myself. My ex used to accuse me of living in the past. I don’t anymore but I do hang onto a lot of things that I shouldn’t, a lot of people that really have no business being in my life anymore, just because I’m ultimately too afraid to just…let go.